…have never lived in. I really am sounding maudlin and I don’t mean to. I suppose I am also doing the usual year-end reflection and the fact that I am forty next year is giving me extra food for thought. Of course your death and trying to sort out exactly what it’s all about has me thinking, thinking, thinking, but it also has me contemplating the fact that I am next. I don’t mean that I think I’m going to die anytime soon, but life is moving on and in our very small family I am now the older generation,…