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July 20, 2009
The GF That Wasn't, continued.

I have more in common with her, actually, than with most of the other women I've written about. Arts background, sci-fi geekery, sense of humor, games of most kinds...we never (hardly ever) have trouble making conversation. She's my closest friend, in many ways -- or at least the most consistent and least judgmental about our differences.

Besides That One Ex, this is the relationship that has changed the most since the beginning. We don't flirt like we did in college; we worry more about our presents than our futures. More adult, but less fun.