Focus on the good, the things done wholeheartedly with love, with special care. Look to that which no one really knows, no one really sees that now through experience I know. I cannot change her or anything that happened in our past and in hers alone, I can make a decision to look beyond the rough edges of her outer shell that has been beaten and battered and still find a pearl, if even a speck of one had ever existed in anyone I know that He has given me divine sight to see it, I just need to look.