I read something insightful. A thread asked how people respond to being hurt by someone. One person replied that it depends on who that person is. If the person is someone she can be totally honest and open with, she will tell them exactly how she's feeling, after thinking it through. But there are only a few people this applies to: SO, mother, brother. If it's with anyone else, she may or may not say anything; instead, she'll usually just close herself off a little to that person and be more cautious next time. I realized I do the same.