I don't mean to talk shit (which means I do) but I think it is necessary. From what I have seen if a lesbian has a problem with a lesbian, then she will handle it one of two general ways or both ways. The first option: world war three. Tears, booze fueled at least, someone will run out, etc. The other is the passive aggressive method. Ignoring one another at the club or sex shop but acting like what one is doing is so fulfilling and interesting that one is not actively ignoring and is merely oblivious to another's presence.