He had it coming ♫
He had it coming ♪
He only had himself to blame ♫
If you'd have been there ♪
If you'd have seen it ♫ (Cell Block Tango - Chicago)

I met him on the course. I liked him, I flirted. A mere month and a half later I found myself with a boyfriend.

Looking back it was plain bizarre. It was "I like you", "Me too", smooch, bam! I'm someone's girlfriend. Wait, what?

That's number one: commitment before trust and plain old friendship or informal dating. Sucks.

Two: there's my schedule. Busy from 8am to 10pm. Weekends are dedicated to friends and family.

Three: I was single for 4 years. I wasn't happily single all the time, but I got by all right. I'm seriously out of practice.