January 18, 2013
New policy, effective immediately: No "friending" a guy I meet on OKCupid before I've been out with him at least once, no matter how much we've already corresponded otherwise. Hey, fella, not only are you the one who initiated contact on that site, but you're the one who suggested the Facebook "friending". If you can't commit to a casual Facebook friendship beyond 36 hours, which requires absolutely nothing to maintain and doesn't even ask for participation, good luck committing to a "romantic" relationship with a chick you meet, on OKCupid or otherwise, outside the bounds of the Internet. Aaaaand block.