We got to the nursing home without incident and found a parking spot right outside the door. My sister had assured me my father was in for good this time. Things would be changing with my parents as the spend down took all their money and then their house. Sis was unsure whether to let the nursing home take the house or to try to sell it. I didn’t know what to tell her. I was too freaked out by this divorce my parents seemed to be getting, by them being in their nineties and so close to the end.