January 13, 2019
When Brysen was about 4, Kuya and Ate taught him that it’s not necessary to win or be first all the time. You know how some kids are taught that they have to win and then are promised a reward? A simple example, during meals when he and his Ate Hailey would eat the same thing, e.g., cereals, Hailey would kid Brysen “I’m done with mine!” The old Brysen would succumb and think he has to catch up. But now he is calm. He looks at his sister and says “It’s not a competition, Ate.” Zen.