February 11, 2019
This July will be 10 years since Jang and I broke up. That's already ages longer than the time we were together (7.5 years). In 2009 (age 27), we've been together for 28% of our life (base number is current age). This 2019, we've been apart almost the same percentage and our time as a couple is now only about 20%. By 2049 (age 67), we'll have been together only about 11% and apart 60%. In 2009, I was so broken, believing I'd have to stop loving her. Now I understand the passage of time is a great kindness.