November 3, 2019
He texts me after two-plus months of no communication, asking if he can "pick [my] brain" about plant-based diets. No preface, no "sorry I've been out of touch", no explanation for absence, just a request for information. I text back a jaunty message saying that Google would be better equipped to answer any questions than "little ol' me", and he single-syllabically thanks me, rather than press in a "cute" way to get together. If he's not willing to do even the most minimal amount of pursuit, even on a platonic level, he's not the type of person my life needs.