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March 4, 2003

There are times I believe there are things I would tell my father now that I couldn't say to him when he was alive. But it's all bravado. I'd probably swallow it as I did then. Come to think of it, there isn't much that's unresolved. Either way the damage is probably done.

I'm from the "don't look back" school. Not that I eschew introspection, it's just better not to dwell.

Besides my memory is so bad I can no longer assign cause to frailty. Who to blame, nature or nurture for a particular shortcoming? Better to live with it.