It's amazing to me how they can make sex scenes in films look a lot more interesting and entertaining than the real thing has ever been in my experience. They make it look like it isn't messy, embarassing, and awkward. I have also learned that men, some men, actually become emotionally attached to the women they are intimate with, not necessarily to the point of falling in love, but at least to a point where there is affection. This also I do not understand, as I have always been able to walk away from it; it's never brought me feeling.