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March 7, 2008
I wonder if rejection ever gets any easier. The worst part is that, despite how it always feels, rejection is rarely personal. Itís usually arbitrary Ė more about them than you. Itís not what you did or said that caused the rejection, itís how they perceived it, or maybe itís their personal problems.

If this sounds like a rationalization, thatís probably because it is.

Iím not even sure I can define the word rejection. Itís a decision which you have limited control over. They say no for their own subjective reasons.

Or at least, thatís what I try to tell myself.