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April 10, 2008
ďDo your friends know?Ē

Itís not a simple conversational enquiry, though they like to disguise it that way. What they actually want to know is, have you been even more of a disappointment by telling people about this? Youíre not supposed to tell people, is the underlying message beneath the question. Of course they donít want people to know. They continue to talk it code and euphemism, as if not actually saying the word means that itís not real.

You can understand that. The words they canít say out loud are different to yours, but the same reason is there.