>sheesh< I figure that i have every right to use jasse as a public names since i've never met another Jasse. Because Jasse is as unusual as it is - the whole notionf of FINDING my real name seems silly - as i already have it - even though my mum and dad gave it to me. I am a 29 year old dad - of a little girl who is 19 months old. I'm happily married, and i work for an Energy Trading company. We just bought a mini-van - and i'm struggling to accept this new phase of my life . . .